Training your child may be considered by many parents to be the more difficult part of parenting. It’s easy to change a toddler’s dirty nappy, but not so easy to train him or her to use the toilet. It’s easier to feed your toddler than to let them learn by doing it themselves. Both the above scenarios are essential if you don’t want your carpet to get dirtied with food or other unmentionables. Carpet cleaning will always be necessary when you have kids, but it can be minimised with the right training.
However, training takes patience and you should not expect your little ones to learn something on the first day. Their little minds don’t always grasp the concepts of cleanliness that you present to them. And when they do, it takes longer to establish the habit in them. You may love hugs and kisses, bathing and dressing your child up in pretty clothes, but training them to be and do what you want is a whole other ball game. So how can you make it easier?
Living together is never easy, whether it is with your spouse, children or parents. If you don’t want to end up with a divorce, it is important to nurture your relationship with your spouse so that they feel loved, and to ensure good communication with them so they know how you feel. Divorce brings its own set of problems, so it’s not always the easy fix that people think it will be, especially when children are involved.
If you are feeling a bit negative about your relationship, here are some tips that might help.
- Spend more time together alone. This might mean waking up 15 minutes earlier so you can have your morning coffee together before the children and the day’s responsibilities require your attention.
Once your children become old enough for school it is important role of parenting to choose one that is suitable for them and for your expectations of them. Sending them to a school that does not have a good reputation is a decision you may well regret, especially if nothing’s done about bullying, or if the study ethic is not encouraged. Children have enough distractions these days; having teachers who don’t appear to care if they do their homework will only exacerbate it.
A good school teaches much more than the subjects offered. Children in good schools learn a lot about attitudes and what they need to do to get on well in life. With the right kind of encouragement from teachers, children can get better grades and their options in life improve as well.